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Rhilee
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I need help.
« Thread Started on Jan 30, 2008, 1:25pm »

Ok I just want to start off by saying do you know how weird it feels to be the first to post in this particular topic? Ok now with my help needed problem.

You see with me and my boyfriend we don't really have compatable turn ons like he wants be to be more dominent, take control really, but I'm more of a... submitive person, I like being helpless during and being dominent is kind of a turn off for me. So yeah thats really my problem. Can anyone help?

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Re: I need help.
« Reply #1 on Feb 2, 2008, 5:09pm »

Well.. does it have to be so extremist ? Do you have to be either dominant or submissive ? Can't you be the middle ground ? Or find something else that turns you both on so you can focus on that, and not on who's being submissive or dominant. Food, "movies", etc..

Lola says: "Why don't you take turns with who's submissive and who's dominant ?"

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Re: I need help.
« Reply #2 on Feb 2, 2008, 5:11pm »

Uhm.. I'm not sure if I want to say 'let us know if it all worked out'... but if that didn't solve the question, then maybe we can think of something else

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Re: I need help.
« Reply #3 on Feb 19, 2008, 2:10pm »

The thing is the same things dont turn us on. It probably really doesn't matter now because we just broke up today.

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Re: I need help.
« Reply #4 on Feb 26, 2008, 3:35am »

Aww Rhilee, I'm so sorry. I hope it was because of that ^.
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Re: I need help.
« Reply #5 on Mar 7, 2008, 11:30am »

No it wan't because of that. It was because we spend too much time together and get angry at each other for talking and mucking around with our seperate friends. But my original post kind of is relevent again because we got back together. But we are halfway through sorting it out.

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